A Line or Circle?

I keep wondering why there are so much troubled people around. The more I study psychology, the more I realize that everything comes from childhood. Childhood makes us what we are now. 

So can we put all the blame on our parents, or is it just an excuse for our actions? 

Does a drug user or alcoholic, anorexic or someone who just has some socializing problem, has to take responsibility for himself or does it starts deeper, way back in the past? 

Cannot help but wonder does life is a line or does it go in circles? 

Troubled parents make troubled children, who then grow up and do the same, and that happens again and again…

Does it?

Is it in our hands to break the ritual? 

It’s not easy to make a Tabula Rasa, and start all over again... Home is the place where we take our first steps, the place where we say our first words and it is also the place where we meet face to face with love, understanding, and rendering of help, kindness but unfortunately in some cases also guilt, betrayal, jealousy, pain, hurt and tears. A child takes the family in like a wing under which he is safe and no matter what is his family, he loves it more than anything else. And it depends on family either it will go down in the world or die away.

The children are the mirror of their parents, but what if this mirror is already broken… 

Some might say: What I have done to deserve this…?  

We don’t get what we deserve, we just get what we get and we have to live with it. 

If life goes in circles there is actually no end and no beginning, so there is nothing we can do about it. 

But if it is a line we never now what’s ahead… 

People use masks every day and sometimes we use them so much that we forget what we really are, lucky are those who have somebody who pulls back and helps to see themselves again.

To all intents and purposes home gives the rise of everything either in a good way or not and those lucky enough to be able to help after that do.

Have a nice day, My Loves…

Xoxo

Agy